Yibane ngqondweni kufanelekile, ayibalulekanga kakhulu kuphela ebomini ngokubanzi, ikwabaluleke kakhulu kwezemidlalo. Ukukwazi ukuqonda oko kwenzekayo ezingqondweni zethu size ngaloo ndlela sikwazi ukuhlangabezana nako kusisixhobo esibalulekileyo.
Iimbaleki ezikrelekrele ngokweemvakalelo zi okwaziyo ukujongana neemeko ezithile ngokuzola okumonelayo. Kwaye kukuba bayazazi kwaye banokulawula ngokulula ukuzibamba kwabo, ngokuqaphela okwenzekayo ngaphakathi kwabo. Ngale ndlela, banako ukunyamezela imithambo-luvo, la ukukhungatheka, Las uloyiso kunye ukoyiswa. Kwangaxeshanye, bayakwazi ukuqonda umchasi kwaye basebenzise i uvelwano ukuzibeka kwimeko eyahlukileyo.
Ukongeza, ubukrelekrele beemvakalelo eziphezulu kwibala lezemidlalo livumela a unxibelelwano olusebenzayo ngakumbi, ethanda i qela kunye nokunyamezela ukuziphatha okuthile kwabanye.
Kutheni ingqondo yeemvakalelo ibalulekile kwezemidlalo?
Ubukrelekrele beemvakalelo buvumela imbaleki babe nokulawula ngakumbi iimvakalelo zabo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu ibaluleke kakhulu, kuba iguqulela kwi-a ukusebenza okuphezulu phantsi koxinzelelo.
Imbaleki ekwaziyo ukulawula iimvakalelo zayo lilawule kakuhle ixesha lakho. Uyayazi indlela yokuchitha ixesha lakhe loqeqesho ngogxininiso olukhulu kwaye uyayiqonda imfuneko yokuphumla ukuphucula ukusebenza kwakhe. Ngokubanzi, uyazi ukuphatha kwaye uphila ubomi obunempilo, ekubeni eqonda ukuba imikhwa yomntu ngamnye iguqulela ngokuthe ngqo kwintlalontle yabo kunye nokusebenza okulandelayo.
A inqanaba leemvakalelo, iimbaleki ezinobu buchule, zi abahlobo abalungileyo kakhulu kwaye uncede iqela lakho. Banomthamo ophezulu woku uvelwano kwaye ubaqonde abo bakungqongileyo; bayakwazi ukuziphulaphula baze babe ne ulawulo olubalulekileyo kwindlela abasabela ngayo xa kusenzeka intswela-bulungisa okanye ukusilela. Bacacile ngeenjongo zabo kwaye balwa ngomonde kwaye ngaphandle kokuphoxeka.
Indlela yokuphucula ingqondo yengqondo?
- thatha ixesha lakho qala ukuzazi
- Ziqhelanise ne kucamngca ukuzola ingaphakathi lakho kwaye ube nemveliso ngakumbi
- Zibuze rhoqo malunga neyona nto ibalulekileyo kwaye uyeke ucinge ukuba iimpendulo ezithile zifanelekile
- Yiba nomonde endleleni eya uloyiso kwaye qonda ukuba ukoyiswa yinxalenye yomdlalo
- Thetha nabantu abakungqongileyo malunga nemibono yakho kwaye uqonde ukubaluleka kwayo mamela abanye
Izixhobo ezikunika ubukrelekrele beemvakalelo kukunceda ukwazi ukujongana nemithambo-luvo kunye noxinzelelo, iikhonsepthi ezimbini ezinokonakalisa ngaphezu komdlalo omnye.