Ngamaxesha amaninzi, sizama ukuba phezulu kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu kwaye, nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba sifikelele kuyo yonke into. Ukufumana amaxesha okuzinikela kubaluleke kakhulu kwimeko yempilo yethu, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kunye nomgangatho wobomi bethu. sikuxelele ezinye izimvo ezintle ke unokuthatha ithuba kwezi nyanga zasehlotyeni kwaye uzinakekele ngendlela ongazange wazi ngayo ngaphambili.
Ngamanye amaxesha asikokuswela umdla okusenza singazikhathaleli kangangoko sinako. Ixesha libonakala lihamba ngokukhawuleza kakhulu xa sizimisele ukuzalisekisa yonke imisebenzi kunye nezibophelelo zethu. siyazenzisa senze konke okusemandleni ethu emsebenzini; sinyamekele ezethu; thobelana ne inkqubo yezemidlalo; sondle ngokuchanekileyo; kwaye ube nayo ixesha lokuncokola kunye nokubonisa ubuso bethu obuhle, ngaphandle kokufa uzama. Sonke singathanda ukuzalisekisa iinjongo zethu kwaye singaziva sidiniwe njengoko kusondela emva kwemini. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka sibe nengqiqo kwizinto esinokwenzeka size siziqhelanise neemeko ngeyona ndlela isempilweni nepholileyo.
Iingcamango ezintle zokuzinyamekela kweli hlobo
Thatha ithuba kwiinyanga zasehlotyeni, apho iqondo lobushushu lisivumela ukuba sichithe ixesha elininzi ngaphandle kwaye iintsuku zinde, lukhetho oluhle kakhulu. Ukonwabela ulonwabo oluhanjiswa ziintsuku ezinelanga kunye nokucebisa iinjongo ezintsha kuyimpumelelo. Ke ngoko, usenalo ixesha lokwenza eli hlotyeni libe nemveliso kakhulu kwaye usebenze njengetshaji kwiinyanga ezibandayo.
amaxesha okuphumla
Umkhwa onokuthi zilungiselele ngaphakathi nangaphandle ebusika; kukuzonwabisa imisebenzi yokuphumla yangaphandle. Usenokungaziva uncedo olukhawulezileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuthe ngcembe, uya kuyeka ukuqonda ukuba uhleli njani ngaphandle kwabo ixesha elide. Iyure yokuqala kusasa okanye iyure yokugqibela emva kwemini lelona xesha lifanelekileyo lokuzibonakalisa kwakhona.
amaxesha obuhle
Nokuba kunzima kuwe ukufumana ixesha layo yonke into, bekela bucala usuku olunye ngeveki ukuze unikezele iiyure ezimbalwa kwindlela yakho yobuhle. Idibanisa kuyo umzimba, ubuso, ukunakekelwa kweenwele; kunye nokwenza izinto ezintsha kuquka, umzekelo, iibhafu zeenyawo kunye nokuphululwa kweenyawo. Uya kuqaphela umahluko, uya kuziva ngcono ngawe kwaye uya kudlulela kubomi bakho bonke.
ixesha lokufunda
Faka umabonwakude endaweni yokufunda. Nokuba uya phezulu, ngokuqinisekileyo unayo yonke imini amaxesha amaninzi afileyo apho unokufunda khona endaweni yokuphonononga zonke iinkcukacha zenethiwekhi yakho yoluntu. Vumela iselula iphefumle, kwaye uchithe ixesha lakho lekhefu ngaphakathi imisebenzi enika amaphiko kubuchule bakho.
amaxesha okupheka
Inxalenye enkulu yempilo yakho kunye nomgangatho wobomi uhlala ekhitshini. Thatha ithuba leli hlotyeni ukubhenela kukutya kwendalo kunye nokwexesha elithile kwaye ulahle ezo zilayishwe ngezangezo. Uya kuphucula impilo yakho ngaphakathi, uya kubonakalisa ngaphandle kwaye iya kwandisa impilo yakho. Ungawajongeli phantsi amandla okutya kwakho kwaye uqalise ukwenza imenyu yakho enempilo.
Ukuba ugcina ezi ngcamango engqondweni, uya kufika ekupheleni kwehlobo ngengqondo ezolileyo kunye nokulinganisela. Uya kuziva ulungile ngaphakathi nangaphandle, enkosi ngesibakala sokuba uya kuba ulifumene ixesha lokuzinikezela, nto leyo eyimfuneko, ngaphezu kokuphola nje. uya kuba nayo yakhulula uxinzelelo ukuba, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, iselula kunye nezinye izixhobo zombane zidala; ukususa ubunzulu kunye nokukhulisa ingqondo yakho. Ekugqibeleni, ukutya okunempilo oya kugxila kuyo, Kuya kukugcina unamandla amaninzi, amandla, kunye nempiloue, ukusuka ngaphakathi, iqikelelwa ngaphandle.