Kukho abantu abaninzi abavakalelwa kukuba zabo ukuzithemba iphantsi kwaye ichaphazela ubomi babo. Zininzi izizathu ezinokukhokelela kule meko. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo ezisebenzayo zokusombulula nokuphucula le meko. Namhlanje sithetha nge ubudlelwane phakathi komthambo kunye nokuzithemba.
Ukuba uziva unxulunyaniswa nale meko, kufuneka wazi ukuba ayinguwe wedwa umntu onale ngxaki. Baninzi abantu abavakalelwa ngaloo ndlela umfanekiso anawo ngaye awumvumeli ukuba avele kwaye afezekise iinjongo azibekele yona. Nangona kunjalo, asiyongxaki eqinisekileyo engenasisombululo. Kuyinyani ukuba, njengakuyo yonke into, umntu kufuneka sebenza ukuze udlule kuyo. Kodwa buyintoni ubomi ukuba ayisiyondlela yokufunda nokuphucula?
Kutheni ukwenza umthambo kunokuphucula ukuzithemba?
Ukuziqhelanisa rhoqo nokuzivocavoca umzimba kuye iingenelo ezinkulu kwimpilo yethu yomzimba nengqondo. Kwakhona, ukuba uyiguqula ibe yindlela yokuphila ebandakanya olunye uthotho lwemikhwa esempilweni, uya kuba ne-cocktail yokwenyani eya kukwenza uzive umnandi ngokuqhubekayo.
Ukuzivocavoca umzimba rhoqo kunye nokucwangciswa kakuhle kunempembelelo ngqo emzimbeni wakho. Yi le iimilo, iithowuni, zomeleza kwaye zizuza ukushesha okukhulu, ulungelelwaniso, ulungelelwaniso kunye nokuguquguquka. Zonke ezi zinto zenza umfanekiso wakho, ngokuthetha ngokuthe ngqo, ujonge uguqulelwe kwinguqulelo engcono. Kwinqanaba lokuqonda, ubona uthotho lweenguqulelo ezikugcina unomdla kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe zikusondeze kwinto ofuna ukuba yiyo.
Kule nkalo, ingqeqesho nokuzingisa Ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngale ndlela, ugcina ingqwalasela kwinkqubela phambili yakho kwaye ukuzithemba kwakho kuqiniswa ngokuqinisekileyo. Kwakhona, akukho nto ifana nokubeka injongo kunye nokubona ukuba uyakwazi ukuyiphumeza; yeka ukuba ngumbukeli, ukujonga izinto ezenziwa ngabanye kwaye baphumelele, ukuqala ukuba ngumlinganiswa oyintloko.
Inkqubo yakho yezemidlalo nayo ine impembelelo enkulu kwindiza yakho yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo, ekubeni inegalelo intlalontle, ukuziphatha, ukuzingisa kunye noxanduva kunye nawe kunye nempumelelo yeenjongo. Akukho nto ifana nokukubona usebenza, usenza izimo zengqondo kunye nokuzilolonga obungasoze ucinge ukuwenza.
ukuzithemba kuku isimo sengqondo ngobomi leyo, kwiimeko ezininzi, ayiyonyani. Kulapho ingxaki ikhona: siqhele ukuba njalo abagxeki bethu abakhulu. Akukho nto ifana ne-a indlela yokuphila enempilo, kunye nenkqubo yezemidlalo, ukubeka iinyawo zakho emhlabeni, ukuphucula inguqulo yakho kwaye kukunike ukhuseleko olukhulu kunye nokuzingca. Kwanokuba ekuqaleni uziva ungafaneleki okanye uziva ungafanelekanga, zingisa. Ngumcimbi wexesha phambi kokuba ukwazi ukufumana iswitshi ekhanyisa ubomi bakho.