La khuthazo Idlala indima engundoqo nesisiseko xa kufikwa ekuphumezeni iinjongo esizibekele zona. Mhlawumbi kuye kwenzeka kuwe: uzame ukufikelela kwinjongo kwaye awuzange ukwazi ukufikelela ekupheleni, kuba umnqweno kunye namandla akushiyile. Inkuthazo ngamandla atyhala kwaye amilisele ingqwalasela koko sizimisele ukukuphumeza.
Nokuba uyimbaleki eqhuba kakuhle, okanye usandula ukuqalisa ukuziqhelanisa nezemidlalo, inkuthazo isixhobo esinamandla kumntu wonke ngokulinganayo. Kwaye kukuba oku kukwazi ukusiqhubela ekujoliseni, okanye ukusoyisa kumzamo. Kwaye akunanto yakwenza nobuthathaka. Nabona badlali babalaseleyo kufuneka bakhunjuzwe ngamaxesha athile ngexabiso nokubaluleka koko bakwenzayo.
Iindlela zokungalahlekelwa ngumnqweno
Kholelwa kuwe
Kholelwa kumathuba akho kwaye ufunde ukucinga oko uyakwazi ukuyiphumeza. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ujoyine ijim amatyeli aliqela ngawo wonke umnqweno wehlabathi kwaye, kamva, uye waphanza. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba uyakholelwa kubuchule bakho kwaye uyeke ukuzibona ungenakukwazi, izinto ziqala ukuphucuka. Khumbula ukuba amagumbi agcwele abantu, ngamnye uneenjongo ezithile ngokusekelwe kumathuba abo, abazama kwaye baphumelele. Nawe unako.
Ukuba ungomnye wabo bahamba kwindawo yokuzivocavoca njengentlanzi emanzini, kodwa uye wadibana nemiqobo kulo mbandela, ungakhathazeki. Abona badlali babalulekileyo abakafikeleli apho bakhoyo ngaphandle kokubila. Uyazi ngcono kunaye nabani na umbingelelo obandakanyekayo ekuqhubekeni xa usilela, kwaye uqhubeke. Ngumcimbi wexesha phambi kokuba ube lolo hlobo luphuculweyo lwakho olulangazelelayo.
lubone usukelo lwakho
Ayikho enye indlela esebenzayo yokuphumeza into kunokuyibona ngeso lengqondo. Khawucinge ukuba uya kuziva njani xa ufezekise injongo yakho yokulahlekelwa ubunzima. Okanye umfanekiso ukuba isibuko siya kubuyela kuwe xa sibonisa ukukhula kwe-muscular oye waphumelela ngokusekelwe ekuzingiseni kunye nokuchasana. Okanye uya kusabela njani ekuphuculeni ixesha lakho kumzila okanye echibini. Yiba nomfanekiso "phambi nasemva" kwaye ubhekisele kuyo ngalo lonke ixesha uzibuza intsingiselo yento oyenzayo.
thetha wedwa
Ngamanye amaxesha, i-demotivation ayikho enye into ngaphandle kwemfuno oyenzayo kuwe. Thetha nawe, zinike amandla kunye nenkuthazo. Nokuba abanye bakuxelela kangakanani kwaye bazama ukukutyhala, amandla angaphakathi kuwe kwaye kulapho kufuneka ujike xa uziva ubuthathaka. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuthandabuza lithuba lokuqondisa kwakhona iinjongo zakho kwaye ufezekise impumelelo ngokufanelekileyo. Yiya kubo bonke!