Uma uthanda ukugijima kodwa, ngezinye izikhathi, uzwa ibhuleki elikuvimbela ekwenzeni isimiso sakho, ungase ube nentshisekelo kulokhu okuthunyelwe. Zitholele izinzuzo zokubhalisela a iqembu eligijimayo futhi kunikeza ukuqeqeshwa kwakho umdlandla owengeziwe. Inezinzuzo eziningi futhi iyindlela enhle kakhulu kulabo ngezinye izikhathi abakuthola kunzima ukubhekana nemashi. Unentshisekelo? Qhubeka ufunda!
Ziningi izici usuku lonke ezingase zisibangele ubuvila obuthile, ukukhathala noma ukudangala lapho ubhekene nokuqeqeshwa. Ukuthi ukugijima kuwumkhuba wakho noma okunye, kuyenzeka kithi sonke ukuthi, ngezikhathi ezithile, sizizwe ibhuleki elisivimbela ukuthi siye phambili. Iqiniso lokuthi lokhu kwenzeka, ngezikhathi ezithile, akuyona inkinga. Kunengqondo ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi umzimba noma ingqondo yethu isicela ikhefu. Miningi imisebenzi esibhekana nayo futhi kwesinye isikhathi asikwazi ukuthola yonke into.
Noma kunjalo, kukhona izici ezithile ezingaba ukusunduza kanye nomthamo wokugqugquzela okwengeziwe uma lokhu kwenzeka. Enye yazo ukujoyina iqembu eligijimayo. Ngokuvamile kukhona ithuba lokukwenza cishe noma kuphi. Nokho, uma ingekho lapho uhlala khona, akunankinga: dala iqembu lakho! Siyaqiniseka ukuthi uzothola abantu abambalwa abacabanga ukuthi kuwumbono omuhle kakhulu futhi abatshala imali ngokugcwele kulesi siphakamiso.
Izinzuzo zokujoyina iqembu eligijimayo
- Dama-oses engeziwe wokugqugquzela ngezinsuku lapho uzizwa sengathi awufuni
- Funda kubantu abanolwazi oluthe xaxa futhi unikele ngezinhlamvu zakho zesihlabathi abaqalayo
- I-Sentir inyunyana yethimba elikhuthazwayo futhi amalungu ayo adonselana lapho othile entenga
- Ukwazi abantu abasha futhi ube yingxenye yeqembu labantu ngokuthanda okuthile okuvamile
- finyelela imigomo ngamunye, ephelezelwa abanye abantu abanezinjongo zabo, kuyanelisa kakhulu
- Xhuma nomzimba wakho, nqamula ekukhathazekeni futhi udale izixhumanisi ezintsha ngendlela enempilo
- Umuzwa wokuzibophezela neqembu lapho usuyophonsa ithawula
- Amandla we hlanganisa izindlela ezintsha, izigqi, izithiyo… kuhlala kuneziphakamiso ezintsha
- Ukukhetha kwe lungiselela a umsebenzi omusha lokho kumelela umgomo ofanayo
- injabulo ye wabelane ngesikhathi esimnandi futhi uthuthukise amabhrendi akho ukuthola ukuqashelwa eqenjini futhi ngokuphambene nalokho