Baningi abantu abanomuzwa wokuthi yabo ukuzihlonipha iphansi futhi ithonya ukuphila kwabo. Ziningi izimbangela ezingaholela kulesi simo. Nokho, kunezindlela ezihlukahlukene ezisebenzayo zokuxazulula nokuthuthukisa lesi simo. Namuhla sikhuluma nge ubudlelwano phakathi kokuzivocavoca kanye nokuzethemba.
Uma uzizwa ubhekene nalesi simo, kufanele wazi ukuthi akuwena wedwa onale nkinga. Baningi abantu abazizwa kanjalo isithombe anaso ngaye asimvumeli ukuthi aguquke futhi afinyelele imigomo azibekela yona. Nokho, akuyona inkinga eqondile engenaso isixazululo. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi, njengakho konke, umuntu kufanele sebenza ukuze udlule kukho. Kodwa iyini impilo uma kungeyona indlela yokufunda nokwenza ngcono?
Kungani ukuvivinya umzimba kungathuthukisa ukuzethemba?
Umkhuba ovamile wokuvivinya umzimba has izinzuzo ezinkulu zempilo yethu ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Futhi, uma uyiguqula ibe indlela yokuphila ebandakanya olunye uchungechunge lwemikhuba enempilo, uzoba ne-cocktail yangempela ezokwenza uzizwe umangalisa ngokuqhubekayo.
Ukuzivocavoca umzimba okuvamile nokuhleleke kahle kunomthelela oqondile emzimbeni wakho. Lokhu amajamo, amathoni, aqinisa futhi athole ukushelela okukhulu, ibhalansi, ukusebenzisana nokuvumelana nezimo. Zonke lezi zici zenza isithombe sakho, uma sikhuluma ngobuqotho, sibukeke siguqulelwe enguqulweni engcono. Ngezinga lokuqonda, ubona uchungechunge lwezinguquko ezikugcina ukhuthazekile futhi kancane kancane zikusondeze kulokho ofuna ukuba yikho.
Kule nkinga, isiyalo nokungaguquguquki Kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngale ndlela, ugcina ukunaka kwakho ekuqhubekeleni phambili kwakho futhi ukuzethemba kwakho kuqiniswa nakanjani. Futhi, akukho okufana nokubeka umgomo nokubona ukuthi uyakwazi ukuwufinyelela; yeka ukuba yisibukeli, ukubheka lokho abanye abakwenzayo nabakufezayo, ukuqala ukuba umlingiswa oyinhloko.
Indlela yakho yezemidlalo nayo ine- umthelela omkhulu endizeni yakho yengqondo nengokomzwelo, njengoba inikela inhlalakahle, isiyalo, ukubekezela kanye nokuzibophezela kwakho kanye nokufezwa kwezinjongo. Ayikho into efana nokukubona usebenza, wenza izimo zengqondo nokuzivocavoca obungeke ucabange ukukwenza.
ukuzethemba a isimo sengqondo ngokuphila okuyinto, ezimweni eziningi, okungelona iqiniso. Kulapho-ke inkinga: sivame ukuba njalo abagxeki bethu abakhulu. Ayikho into efana ne-a indlela yokuphila enempilo, kanye nenqubo yezemidlalo, ukubeka izinyawo zakho phansi, ukuthuthukisa inguqulo yakho futhi ikunikeze ukuvikeleka okukhulu nokuziqhenya komuntu siqu. Ngisho noma ekuqaleni unomuzwa wokuthi awukufanelekeli noma ukuthi awukho kahle, qhubeka. Kuyindaba yesikhathi ngaphambi kokuthi ukwazi ukuthola iswishi ekhanyisa impilo yakho.