La isisusa Idlala indima ebalulekile neyisisekelo uma kuza ekuzuzeni izinjongo esizibekele zona. Mhlawumbe kuye kwenzeka kuwe: uzame ukufinyelela umgomo futhi awukwazanga ukufinyelela ekugcineni, ngoba isifiso namandla akushiye eceleni. Ukugqugquzeleka kungamandla aphusha futhi agxilise ukunaka kulokho esihlose ukukuzuza.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumdlali osezingeni eliphezulu, noma uma usanda kuqala ukuzilolonga, ugqozi luwumphumela. ithuluzi elinamandla wonke umuntu ngokulinganayo. Futhi kungenxa yokuthi lokhu kuyakwazi ukusiqhubela emgomweni, noma kusinqobe emzamweni. Futhi akuhlangene nobuthakathaka. Ngisho nabasubathi abavelele badinga ukukhunjuzwa izikhathi ngezikhathi ngokubaluleka nokubaluleka kwalokho abakwenzayo.
Izindlela zokuthi ungalahlekelwa isifiso
Zethembe
Kholelwa emandleni akho futhi ufunde ukucabanga lokho uyakwazi ukukufeza. Akunandaba ukuthi ujoyine ijimu izikhathi eziningana nazo zonke izifiso emhlabeni, futhi, kamuva, uye wahluleka. Impela, uma ukholelwa emandleni akho futhi uyeka ukuzibona ungenamandla, izinto ziqala ukuba ngcono. Khumbula ukuthi amakamelo agcwele abantu, ngamunye enezinjongo eziqondile ngokusekelwe kulokho abanakho, abazama futhi baphumelele. Nawe ungakwazi.
Uma ungomunye walabo abahamba ejimini njengenhlanzi emanzini, kodwa uhlangabezane nezithiyo kulokhu, ungakhathazeki. Abasubathi ababaluleke kakhulu abakafinyeleli lapho bekhona ngaphandle kokujuluka. Wazi kangcono kunanoma ubani ukuzinikela okuhilelekile ekuqhubekeni lapho wehluleka, futhi usaqhubeka. Kuyindaba yesikhathi ngaphambi kokuba ube yileyo nguqulo yakho ethuthukisiwe oyilangazelelayo.
ubone ngeso lengqondo umgomo wakho
Ayikho indlela ephumelelayo yokuzuza okuthile kunokuyibona ngeso lengqondo. Cabanga ukuthi ungazizwa kanjani uma usufinyelele umgomo wakho wokulahlekelwa isisindo. Noma isithombe sokuthi isibuko sizobuyela kuwe lapho sibonisa ukukhula kwemisipha oye wazuza ngokusekelwe ekuphikeleleni nasekuphikiseni. Noma ungasabela kanjani ekuthuthukiseni isikhathi sakho kuthrekhi noma echibini. Cabanga "ngaphambi nangemuva" futhi ubhekisele kukho njalo lapho uzibuza incazelo yalokho okwenzayo.
khuluma wedwa
Kwesinye isikhathi, ukwehliswa kwezikhundla akuyona into engaphezu kwesidingo ozenzela sona. Khuluma nawe, zinike amandla nesikhuthazo. Noma ngabe abanye bakutshela kangakanani futhi bazame ukukusunduza, amandla angaphakathi kuwe futhi yilapho okufanele ujike lapho uzizwa ubuthakathaka. Kwesinye isikhathi ukungabaza kuyithuba lokuqondisa kabusha izinjongo zakho futhi uzuze impumelelo ngempumelelo kakhulu. Hamba kukho konke!